Weight

    When he broke you heart, you tried to lose weight. 

We weave the faults of our lovers into intricate pieces of ourselves. We tangle their mistakes with our shortcomings. We create beds for our insecurities, laying down heartbreak in comfy blankets of blame. 

He didnt love you because you are too fat. You were sure of it. 

So you stopped eating. Drunk a gallon of water each day, bathed in detox teas, moisturized your skin with sweat from workouts you performed twice a day. You broke your ankle once, then broke out in hives because you’re allergic to self loathing. But you didn't stop. You swear you’re doing this for you,  but when he comes back, because he will, You’ll let him in. After All, he came back because you're not fat anymore. Right?


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